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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - It's not just about you !⚠️ Let me explain...πŸ‘‡ One of the things I see so many women do is focus on themselves , become a better version,  learn self worth and how to set boundaries and communicate their needs... This is awesome and necessary... BUT .. It is only half of the picture. ⚠️ If you want a thriving , loving relationship you also need to understand HOW men work , WHAT they need , his CORE desires , his MENTALITY and what will trigger him to commit and be a loving partner. 
There are two people in a relationship,  therefore you have to also learn how the other works and what they need to function at their best capacity. πŸ’š

We can't just walk into love and demand what we want. Or assume the work stops at us.😬 It's a team , and each person has to also be willing to understand how the other works and what they need to feel fulfilled. πŸ‘«

As someone who coaches men as well as women , it means I see both sidea and it's what helps my clients get results , because my coaching isn't bias , but balanced.

Do you feel like you don't know enough about the opposite sex? 
Tell me below ! .
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It's not just about you !⚠️ Let me explain...πŸ‘‡ One of the things I see so many...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - To all the people who say they have met

To all the people who say they have met " the love of their life " ...but that person...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Reality vs more Reality ➑️ swipe .

I remember that back when I was a serial dater , even before Instagram came about , I used to think I had to be a certain type of woman in order to catch and keep a man.🚫 I felt like I had to look a certain way , act a certain way and be this person whom I thought he wanted. πŸ™„

As a result I was always dating to please men ....and that was bloody exhausting.πŸ˜‘ Like literally if he liked drinking Sprite , I immediately tried to like it too .πŸ€” Or if he was a surfer , I went and bought a surf board and pretended to like it too πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Needless to say it was not being true to myself,  nor was it fulfilling or sustainsble. 😞 
You want him to like you for you! Because the truth is you are enough .πŸ’“ BUT .... Make sure you are the best version of you , so you can attract a man who is also the best version of himselfβœ”

Yes it's important to take responsibility,  learn about love and men as well to become an attractive partner....but dont lose your authentic self in the process.πŸ’“
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Reality vs more Reality ➑️ swipe . I remember that back when I was a serial date...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - YOU are the key to a great relationship. 
Because YOU make your decisions ! πŸ’£πŸ’₯ It's probably not the answer you want to hear to solve your love life issues or #marriage. 
But if we can start with fixing ourselves first before trying to fix others it will get you progress a lot faster! 
Be the partner you want to attract. ❀

YOU are the key to a great relationship. Because YOU make your decisions ! πŸ’£πŸ’₯ ...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - It's ok that your date didn't work out. 
It's ok that they didn't choose you.

Because as long as YOU choose you , that's all that matters. 
Rejection doesn't mean there is something wrong with you , it just means either you or they aren't ready. 
And that's a good thing ! Because there is no point trying to build something if you are going to self sabotage,  or if you have to try and convince them every day that you are worthy .

When you realise that who you are is enough ,you dont get stuck in rejection.

Flip the thought from

It's ok that your date didn't work out. It's ok that they didn't choose you. Becaus...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - How to build TRUST πŸ‘‡ 
Trust is always going to involve risk. But you can't build it on Fear or Feelings ! πŸ’₯πŸ’£ To encourage trust you must communicate your fears and expectations clearly.  And then CHOOSE trust over fear.

Get to know someone's character to work out if they are someone you should trust. 😊
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How to build TRUST πŸ‘‡ Trust is always going to involve risk. But you can't build i...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Relationships aren't easy , but they aren't meant to be incredibly hard. 
It's about finding that balance in between the two of ease and effort. πŸ’£πŸ’₯ The two biggest indications of a healthy relationship are Peace and Progress. 
Lets remember what the real standard should be so we don't become lazy or strive for something that is unhealthy .
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Relationships aren't easy , but they aren't meant to be incredibly hard. It's about ...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Here is the truth !πŸ‘‡ ➑️I didn't get lucky in love. I just made better decisions. ➑️My looks have not given me my dream man ...but rather my choices,  attitude,  boundries and self love have. ➑️I didn't move countries to find him , he found me after moving countries . ➑️I didn't find him online or go on millions of dates , in fact once I realised what I really wanted and deserved I only went on two dates in 4 months, tuned down good men and then met him in real life. 
People look at me and think I have ot easy , but the truth is I struggled for 10 years and then once I learnt how to do love the right way , everything just fell into place. 
I hear so many excuses and reasons why people struggle in love: ❌

Here is the truth !πŸ‘‡ ➑️I didn't get lucky in love. I just made better decision...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Here is what I think about datings apps and online dating. πŸ“²πŸ’»β€ They are a great way to create an  opportunity to meet someone ....they aren't a guarentee that it will be the right someone. 
Love involves risk and action ...but the way in which you want your love life to go is up to you , not a dating app. 
You choose who you date. 
You choose your actions. 
You choose your thoughts. πŸ‘†πŸ’‘ .
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Here is what I think about datings apps and online dating. πŸ“²πŸ’»β€ They are a gre...


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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - It's not just about you !⚠️ Let me explain...πŸ‘‡ One of the things I see so many women do is focus on themselves , become a better version,  learn self worth and how to set boundaries and communicate their needs... This is awesome and necessary... BUT .. It is only half of the picture. ⚠️ If you want a thriving , loving relationship you also need to understand HOW men work , WHAT they need , his CORE desires , his MENTALITY and what will trigger him to commit and be a loving partner. 
There are two people in a relationship,  therefore you have to also learn how the other works and what they need to function at their best capacity. πŸ’š

We can't just walk into love and demand what we want. Or assume the work stops at us.😬 It's a team , and each person has to also be willing to understand how the other works and what they need to feel fulfilled. πŸ‘«

As someone who coaches men as well as women , it means I see both sidea and it's what helps my clients get results , because my coaching isn't bias , but balanced.

Do you feel like you don't know enough about the opposite sex? 
Tell me below ! .
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#datingexpert #findinglove #relationshipgoals #selflove #datingcoach #datingadvice #askRenee #reneeslansky #thelovecoach #empoweringwomen #allthesingleladies #findingaman #lifecoach #lifecoaching #coaching #whyyouaresingle #singleandreadytomingle #understandinghowmenwork #marriagetips #menarefrommars

It's not just about you !⚠️ Let me explain...πŸ‘‡ One of the things I see so many...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Breaking your cycle isn't just about you. πŸ’₯πŸ’£πŸ‘ It's funny how when we are experiencing struggle and pain , all we can think about is

Breaking your cycle isn't just about you. πŸ’₯πŸ’£πŸ‘ It's funny how when we are exp...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Worried that he is pulling back and becoming a little more distant? 
Long distance relationships are hard work! I would know , we had to do one for 4 years of our relationship. 
That's why it's important to be aware of all the signs before they turn into issues. If you want to bullet proof your #LDR then you have to learn to read in between the distance of what he feels even if he isn't saying anything.

This video talks about the 6 signs that he could be finding it all too hard or feeling different about things.

Let me know if you can relate by dropping a #thanksRenee down below!
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Worried that he is pulling back and becoming a little more distant? Long distance re...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - How many times did you tell yourself you would never be in this position again ?
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I remember after every bad break up I promised I wouldn't date that type of guy again....
πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ But as soon as he came along BAM straight down the rabbit hole again.πŸ˜‘πŸ° Am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men because I'm saddistic? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Or am I only just attracting these type of men because the good ones don't want me? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Are there any good ones left? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Like seriously how can I be so aware of a cycle yet not know how to break it ? πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Truth is when you are in it , it's harder to see your blind spots.
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And it wasn't till I got help and accountability , plus learnt what to do practically and emotionally to break the cycle , that things changed. πŸ’£πŸ’₯ I know what it's like to keep being stuck on Square 1 ....
Dating , falling for him , then being broken hearted and dissapointed.... 2 steps forward , 4 steps back.πŸ‘£ But you don't have to keep doing that! πŸ‘

You can break the cycle, in fact you can even make up for lost time ! πŸ’₯

But you have to first take that decision to do things differently.  To say

How many times did you tell yourself you would never be in this position again ? πŸ€”...


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"Imposter Syndrome" it happens in dating just as much as in business ... πŸ˜“ I didn...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - If you are currently starting to question your relationship , because you feel unfulfilled , are being called needy or just lack peace...then this video is for you. 
I remember being made to fell guilty for just wanting the basics in a relationship like trust, communication and transparent love. 
I used to try and force these things from men and it wasn't till I realised that I wasn't asking for too much I was just asking the wrong person. 
It's amazing how much we can questions our needs and standards just because someone can't meet them or tell us what we want is not realistic .

Hoping this video brings you some clarity either way .
Renee x
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If you are currently starting to question your relationship , because you feel unfulf...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - It's not too late to start ⏰

I don't know about anyone else but 2019 is flying by and I feel like the older you get the faster the years go...πŸ˜‘ So I want to ask you a question ....πŸ‘‡ Has this year shaped up to be what you wanted it to be? ❔Did you finally find and begin that dream relationship you have been yearning for? ❔Did you give up those self sabotaging patterns? ❔Did you learn more about how you can flourish ? ❔Did you break those toxic cycles? 
I know that for me hesitation cost me 10 years of heartache and disappointment and delaying my job and dream man. 
What is it costing you ? 
It is not too late,  you still have 4.5 months left in this year and you can  maximize that time if you stay focused and accountable. βœ”πŸ™Œ The reason my clients get such quick progress is because I cut the crap out and help them works SMART not hard in love and life. 
And right now I am opening up positions to my core course Ready for Romance which sets you up for consistent joy , seld love ,and how to find your ideal man in just 60 days βœ”βœ”βœ” So if you are ready to make the most of the rest of this year , let's do this together strategically,  so we can make up for lost time .

Drop a πŸ‘‘ below if you are ready to find Mr Right and want to know how I can help you do that.
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It's not too late to start ⏰ I don't know about anyone else but 2019 is flying by ...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - If you are contemplating starting a long distance relationship , or already in one and starting to have your doubts ...then watch this video.

As someone who did a #LDR for 4.5 years, I can tell you now it's not easy and takes a certain level of realistic expectations , strong commitment and a whole lot more communication.

So just to make sure you aren't setting yourself up for heartache , here are 5 key questions you should ask .
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If you are contemplating starting a long distance relationship , or already in one an...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Reality vs more Reality ➑️ swipe .

I remember that back when I was a serial dater , even before Instagram came about , I used to think I had to be a certain type of woman in order to catch and keep a man.🚫 I felt like I had to look a certain way , act a certain way and be this person whom I thought he wanted. πŸ™„

As a result I was always dating to please men ....and that was bloody exhausting.πŸ˜‘ Like literally if he liked drinking Sprite , I immediately tried to like it too .πŸ€” Or if he was a surfer , I went and bought a surf board and pretended to like it too πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Needless to say it was not being true to myself,  nor was it fulfilling or sustainsble. 😞 
You want him to like you for you! Because the truth is you are enough .πŸ’“ BUT .... Make sure you are the best version of you , so you can attract a man who is also the best version of himselfβœ”

Yes it's important to take responsibility,  learn about love and men as well to become an attractive partner....but dont lose your authentic self in the process.πŸ’“
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Reality vs more Reality ➑️ swipe . I remember that back when I was a serial date...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - There are currently around 4 million singles in the world ....so why are you chasing the one person that can't even be bothered to text back ? 
I know what it's like to hold out for their potential,  to hope they finally recognise your value or offer you the attention and love you desire...πŸ’” I know what it's like to want to have somebody or anybody over nobody , because life can get lonely. πŸ’”

I know what it's like to try and make things work because you have already invested so much time and energy into them , even at the expense of your own worth and happiness. πŸ’”

I get it. I've been that girl who was

There are currently around 4 million singles in the world ....so why are you chasing ...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - β˜€οΈπŸ₯΅ Today has been baking hot here in Oxford so we thought we’d take a look back at the heatwave this time last year. @reneewatson77 was live on air at @BBCOxford with @DPrever and @philmercer before hitting the streets of Oxford with @bbcsouth to answer some summer science questions... β €
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β˜€οΈπŸ₯΅ Today has been baking hot here in Oxford so we thought we’d take a look ...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Want to know how I went from dating multiple #narcissists to meeting my #princecharming in just 4 months? πŸ‘‡

For some of you , you know my story. You know that I didn't get where I and today without the 10 years of heartache and dating disaster before. πŸ˜–

A few months back I recorded a podcast with one of my fav relationship expert's @dr.karin for her #loveandlife podcast.πŸŽ™ Now it's officially live and in the first part of my talk I'll share: ▢️ My top advice for women dating today. ▢️ What men are really looking for on a first date. ▢️ How men get objectified ( yup!) ▢️ The ONE reason a man will commit to a woman. ▢️How entitlement is ruining your chances at love. ▢️ The TWO reasons people remain single ▢️What you NEED TO DO  to set yourself free from TOXIC relationships. 
So needless to say this interview is not just surface level.πŸ™Œ Click through to @dr.karin profile to get the link or head to my blog @the.dating.directory .
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Want to know how I went from dating multiple #narcissists to meeting my #princecharmi...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Here is the truth !πŸ‘‡ ➑️I didn't get lucky in love. I just made better decisions. ➑️My looks have not given me my dream man ...but rather my choices,  attitude,  boundries and self love have. ➑️I didn't move countries to find him , he found me after moving countries . ➑️I didn't find him online or go on millions of dates , in fact once I realised what I really wanted and deserved I only went on two dates in 4 months, tuned down good men and then met him in real life. 
People look at me and think I have ot easy , but the truth is I struggled for 10 years and then once I learnt how to do love the right way , everything just fell into place. 
I hear so many excuses and reasons why people struggle in love: ❌

Here is the truth !πŸ‘‡ ➑️I didn't get lucky in love. I just made better decision...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Ok guys here's one for you πŸ‘‡ 
Here are 5 questions from my video on The Attractive Man @youtube channel that you can ask a girl on a first date that will have her begging for a second date with you:
⬇️ 1. ”Are you comfortable here or would you like to go somewhere else?”: A woman wants to feel comfortable in your presence. Women want to feel safe, so it is very important to ask her this question. Show her that you’re ready to make her safety your number one priority.

2. β€œWhat are your future goals?”: This can give you an indication whether or not you should invest your time in her. It is important that you see a future with someone before you take it any further. It also communicates to her that you are a man with a plan, and that plan could possibly include her. Ultimately, this can display that you are ready for a serious relationship. 
3. ”Have you ever been told that you look like….?”: Now, this doesn’t mean that you should tell her that she looks like Beyonce, when she clearly doesn’t. This is all about complimenting her. In order to make sure you do this right, focus on a small detail and compliment her on that. For example ask her, β€œHave you ever noticed your eyes change color in different lights?” this shows that you’re noticing something special about her.

4. β€œAre you a family girl?”: If you express interest in those closest to her, you will be perceived as someone who is sincere. Again, this will result in talk about the future and gives her the impression that family is important to you.

5. ”Can you let me know when you’re home safe?”: This shows that you genuinely care about her and want to protect her. It makes her feel as though she has a protector and that if anything were to happen, you would step in and rescue her. .

Know anyone who would benefit from this? Tag them below! And don't forget to check out the video ! .
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Ok guys here's one for you πŸ‘‡ Here are 5 questions from my video on The Attractive...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - If you had started 6 months ago,  where would you be right now? 
Was 2019 the year you promised yourself you would find love ? 
Was this year the year you said

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"Next time summarise" ....that was one boyfriend wrote to me when I emailed him about...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Love is a choice. It's a decision to do what is edifying despite what you are feeling. It's a commitment and an action that goes beyond self or circumstances. Love is more than words, its acts of survive that places value on others. πŸ’—β£
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Guys, you know this is true but c'mon you still fall for our charms. So no complaining accepted. Haha, tag your friends below ⁣ ⁣
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Guys, you know this is true but c'mon you still fall for our charms. So no complainin...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - It's ok that your date didn't work out. 
It's ok that they didn't choose you.

Because as long as YOU choose you , that's all that matters. 
Rejection doesn't mean there is something wrong with you , it just means either you or they aren't ready. 
And that's a good thing ! Because there is no point trying to build something if you are going to self sabotage,  or if you have to try and convince them every day that you are worthy .

When you realise that who you are is enough ,you dont get stuck in rejection.

Flip the thought from

It's ok that your date didn't work out. It's ok that they didn't choose you. Becaus...


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"You are not broken. You are not failing." " Your present circumstance is not your de...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Ok let's talk about your big beautiful brain 🧠 
Truth is you literally have so much power to attract the love and happiness you want into your life.

But most of the time our brain goes off what we have experienced and the convictions we have built off those experiences.... It will always gravitate to what it is familiar with ....even if it's unhealthy. 
It's why we date the same type over and over again.

It's why we get trapped in viscous cycles and find it hard to break free... The reason why my programs and coaching is so effective is because I use special exercises to re train your brain , uproot the baggage and build a new belief pattern around the love you are worthy of.

If you are like me , then sometimes you just want a practical action , not some magic fluff talk.

What you feel is not who you are. 
What you have experienced isn't your identify.  You can choose that every.single.day !!! If you want to know more about the strategy I used to break free and help over 100 other women break free then send me a DM or put a πŸ‘‘ below πŸ‘‡ .
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Ok let's talk about your big beautiful brain 🧠 Truth is you literally have so muc...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - You are the one stopping your own progress. ⚠️ ⚠️⚠️⚠️ People often ask me how I went from 10 years of broken relationships, bad dates and heartache, to being joyful , peace filled and in my dream relationship??
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Did I have an epiphany? πŸ”…

ActuallyYes! I realised I was the cause of all my own problems!! But the difference was , I DID something about that epiphany,  I took ACTION ! πŸ”…

I may have been dating the wrong men , but that was my choice. πŸ”…

I just had to work out WHY I was attracting emotionally unavailable men , and HOW to stop choosing them ! πŸ”…

One of the most frustrating things for me as a dating coach is I see so many women delay there happiness and love story because they want to

You are the one stopping your own progress. ⚠️ ⚠️⚠️⚠️ People often as...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - MEN: Take note of this. Don't tell us there's no warning sign. HAHA. Comment down below πŸ‘‡πŸ’– if you can relate.⁣
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Celebrate your small wins today and reward yourself often. Hey gf, you deserve it, trust me. Double tap if you agree.⁣
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Hey @jlo I totally get you ! πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ It can be really confusing when: ➑️ you know your value and still date men who devalue you. ➑️ you have standards but still seem to attract and be attracted to the ones that have none. ➑️ have lots of dates and men chase you , but can't seem to get any of them to commit. ➑️ be actively dating but always  end up single. ➑️ told you are catch , but no one warns to catch and keep you.

Does anyone hear me? It's like you start to think

Hey @jlo I totally get you ! πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ It can be really confusing when: ➑️ yo...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Date his patterns not just his potential .
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Date his present state not your future idea of who he can be.
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I lost count the amount of times that I used to date and hold onto men for who I wanted them to be or for the potential inside them to be more. πŸ”½

I would keep sewing , investing , loving , chasing and giving all for the hope they would magically evolve into the man I desperately wanted.
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Yet I ignored red flags ,justified toxic behaviour,  gave them so many chances all because I was so focused on their potential,  not their patterns.
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And that is a hard circle to break ! Especially when our heart is involved. πŸ”½

It's why I teach hundreds of women how to make sure they are dating from the right mindset and able to identify self sabotaging habits and choose to date smart so they fall in love with the right patterns and potential. πŸ”½

It is something that is easier to do then you think if you know how to do it and why it's so important. πŸ”½

If you want to know more about how I can teach you this ,then put a πŸ‘‘ down below! .
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Blessings Fierce Butterflies!!! It’s Thankful Thursday and boy do I have a story to tell. You already know how it goes... Click the link in my bio and let’s get into it.πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ Remember to Subscribe and share. I can’t believe I shared that.😳

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Why do Alpha women struggle with love? πŸ’„

We often talk so much about #alphamen but what about those boss girls and female leaders running companies,  changing the world and shining in their purpose....
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How is it that they can literally flourish in every other area of their life but suck at love?
πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I was literally like that , I was successful in everything but men and relationships and no matter how hard I tried,  I just never got it right! πŸ™ƒ

I kept doing the wrong thing , dating the wrong guy or self sabotaging without even realizing it.
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Here's the thing , as strong women we can have battles that hinder love like : ➑️ Attracting takers who are drawn to our strength. ➑️ Wanting to fix or rescue men because we are capable of putting up with a lot and see their potential. ➑️ Coming across too strong and having too much masculine energy . ➑️ Not understanding what hidden trauma or limited beliefs we have behind our alpha facade. 
Truth is , even strong women need to be educated on how to love and be loved. πŸ™Œ

It's why I was able to get the shift  because I stopped trying to pretend I was ok , and just work out what I was doing wrong and what I needed to do to make it right. 
If you want to know more about the method I use to help you get the same breakthrough then put a πŸ‘‘ below !
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - But Renee I'm only attracted to a certain type of man ...
πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Ok I get it , we all have a 'type' , but let me ask you this :
πŸ‘‡ ➑️Does your type make you feel valued? ➑️ Does your type act with kindness towards you? ➑️Do they value commitment , respect and faithfulness like you do ? ➑️How do they treat you ? Do you feel prioritised , safe and certain ? ➑️ Is your type emotionally available? 
These are the core questions that matter , because these are they type of qualities that can actually set us up to fall in love with someone who is right for us. 
Is your type even healthy ???πŸ’₯πŸ’£ Because if you keep using your current 'type' as an excuse to keep dating men who aren't capable of giving you what you want , then you will keep going round in circles ! πŸ”…

In my core 8 week course Ready For Romance , I actually help you fall in love and attract a type that is GOOD FOR YOU !
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I literally help you find the balance between finding that attraction whilst also learning to see beyond what you are normally craving. πŸ”…

It's why my girls get massive breakthrough a s find their dream husbands and partners. πŸ”…

If you want to learn how I do it and more about my course,  put a big fat YES below and I'll DM you πŸ’—πŸ‘‡ .
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But Renee I'm only attracted to a certain type of man ... πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Ok I get it ,...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - We live in a generation where we think access to dates means access to love. πŸ”…

Educating men and women on how to set themselves up to build and cultivate healthy,  fulfilling and thriving love lives is not only my daily purpose but also a continuous battle. πŸ”…

Why? πŸ”…

Because we are broken people seeking love from other broken people. πŸ”…

We are in a culture that thrives off quick fixes , fast relationships and unhealed generational trauma that has founded our lack of conviction about who we are and what we are worthy of.
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This is why I am so passionate about what I do , because love education is life changing ! πŸ”…

I'm excited to be able to share this little interview from @lifehacksio and get the word out on how you can turn pain into purpose and set yourself up to thrive in ever relationship you are in !πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’—
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We live in a generation where we think access to dates means access to love. πŸ”… Ed...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - We are broken people dating broken people. - @reneeslansky
@the.dating.directory .
Read/Listen her full interview
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - It’s not about what others see in you, it’s about what you see in yourself. As for me, I see a bright and colorful future because I see my life through God’s plans for me. β€œFor I know the plans I have you - plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” How do you see yourself?

It’s not about what others see in you, it’s about what you see in yourself. As fo...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - I was so devastated every time a relationship fell apart. πŸ˜”

I was so desperate to try and win him back and prove to him that I was loveable. 😞

I was so fixated on the idea that we were meant to be and that he was The One for me ...
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All I can say is THANK GOD it never worked out with them!! #thankyoujesus πŸ‘

It's amazing how much heartache romanticises toxic love.
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Things fall apart for a reason and trying to force something to work that is wrong is not going to bring you happiness .
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The crazy part was , was that I wasn't even happy in the relationship,  yet when they broke up with me I became desperate to try and get them back.
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Now years on , I look back and breathe a sigh of relief. πŸ”…

Now,  I not only know what I want , but also what I deserve and am worthy of. 
It's amazing how  peace and #progress follows clarity. .
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I was so devastated every time a relationship fell apart. πŸ˜” I was so desperate to...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Have you tested your home? Questions call me #Iamheretohelp #AskRenee #staysafe

Have you tested your home? Questions call me #Iamheretohelp #AskRenee #staysafe


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - There are only two reasons why you are single or struggling with love πŸ’₯πŸ’£ ➑️ You are doing the wrong thing ( self sabotaging,  toxic behaviour  or unawareness) ➑️ You are connecting or dating the wrong people ( dating the same type of person over and over again. ) 
I know I have spoken about this recently but everyone loves to try and complicate love. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It's simple. πŸ‘‡

Learn what love really looks like in action , understand how to love yourself properly and you will help eliminate both self sabotaging behaviours or toxic choices from your life. πŸ’₯

Now this isn't something that happens overnight. 
This is something that takes time, discipline ,education and accountability. 
And thats exactly why I rolled all of that knowledge and exact steps to take into my 8 week course Ready For Romance. πŸ’“ 
If you think you can do it on your own then I applaud you ! πŸ‘

But if you are like me and need some help , then I want you to DM me.πŸ’« My 8 week course is life changing  and now ready to take on the next  group of women who are ready to find their dream man ! πŸ€΄πŸ‘Έ So send me a message or put a big fat YES down below in thr comments if you are one of those women !πŸ‘‡ .
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There are only two reasons why you are single or struggling with love πŸ’₯πŸ’£ ➑️...


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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - I used to dread weekends,  because they reminded me of just how single I was. πŸ™ƒ

Even when I was in relationships,  I never knew if I would be spending time with my guy....because I was scared to ask him to plan ahead....and because I never felt like I was a priority. 😞

So what I used to do was not plan anything in hopes that maybe he would be available/want to spend time with me.πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Which often meant I spent even more time alone and said no to other opportunities just for the mere hope of having a few hours with him.πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Well needless to say that made me feel like πŸ’© and set me up for a lot of lonliness and feelings of rejection and unworthiness. πŸ˜“
So once I got the strength to shift my perspective,  stand in my true worth and stop dating the wrong men....that's when weekends got exciting !!! πŸ’ƒ
Even before I met my fiancΓ¨ , I looked forward to the weekends as they represented an opportunity to schedule in joy , downtime , me time or dates with men who were ready to romance and value me !!πŸ’“β˜οΈ And this is the same thing I teach all my girls . You aren't called to just survive till you meet someone....you are called to THRIVE in and out of a relationship!! If you want to know more about how you can get excited about ,dating , love and weekends again , then put a πŸ‘‘ down below πŸ‘‡ .
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - I wish someone would have followed my around and hit my phone out of my hand everytime i was going to text a guy who was emotionally unavailable πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ™ƒ That's kinda what I do now ,☝️ except I don't hit you πŸ˜‚... I educate you on your worth , the standards needed , the patterns you set and the strategy needed to manifest and create a healthy loving relationship .πŸ™Œ My goal is to help you fall in love with WHOM and WHAT  is good for you ! πŸ’₯
We can't just keep blaming cute boys for breaking our heart ....we choose to date them ! πŸ’₯
We choose who we invest into and become attached too ! πŸ’₯
We choose the standards we set ! πŸ’₯
We choose to stay committed even if we KNOW we aren't compatible!

If you really struggle with choosing the wrong men and want to learn how to get rapid progress , peace and fall in love with someone who is on the same page as you then drop a πŸ‘‘ below and I'll DM you ! .
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Am I dating the wrong men ? Or am I doing something wrong ? 
This☝️ is basically what it boils down to if you are struggling to get into a relationship. 
The question is which are you doing? πŸ€”

Are you consistently attracting and investing to men who don't want the same level of commitment? 
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Are you self sabotaging and pushing away the right men because of personal baggage and fears that haven't been addressed yet .... If you want to know the answer,  download my free guide Are You Dateable #selfaudit πŸ“² link is in bio . 
Take the quiz in the guide and then tell me what you discovered ny sending me a DM πŸ’“ .
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - You are delaying your own progress ! 
It's so easy to use the past as an excuse for not getting any progress in the present. 
But we can't keep playing victim to crap that happened to us yesterday. We have to choose to move forward even if we don't want to or don't understand why stuff happened the way it did. 
I used to spend so much time trying to make sense of toxic people and find closure in what they did ....but all it did was delay me from building what I really wanted. 
I don't know who needs to hear this , but LET GO ! 
You cannot go back and change what happened,  all you can do is choose to move on and decide that your present and future is going to be so much better.

In my courses I have a particular exercise called The Baggage Exercise which I get all my clients to do.... It's the same one psychologists,  counsellors and coaches use around the world.

It works.

It realeses all that pain and hury you've been holding onto.

If you want to know more about this exercise and how it can help you move forward send me a message! .
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Blessings Fierce Butterflies! I pray that everyone is having a great start of the week. Well for me, I’m on day 4 of a flare up and not feeling my best. I went to the doctor yesterday to get a couple of shots to open up my airways and to get me on the road of a full recovery.πŸ™πŸ½ In the meantime, I have some great content over in the Fierce Butterfly Nation that you can binge on... Enjoy and remember to be good to yourselves and to one another. Click the link in my bio to SUBSCRIBE and SHARE the channel!πŸ¦‹

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"I love having you in my pocket Renee" ...ok let me explain thatπŸ˜‚ One of the serv...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Ever wonder why you always seem to attract or be attracted to the wrong guys or

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - I want you to date less ❗❗❗❗ Yes . Thats right , I don't believe that just because you have access to multiple dates means you should go on all of them.
πŸ’₯πŸ’£ I don't believe it should be a numbers game and here's why ...πŸ‘‡ Saying yes to anyone just to be proactive about finding love is counterproductive. 🚩

This shouldn't be a quantity quest but rather a search for quality in amoungst the multiple choices. ❗

People are getting choice fatigue because they are overwhelmed with how many people are available and have #fomo on the next one who might be The One !
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We are desperately

I want you to date less ❗❗❗❗ Yes . Thats right , I don't believe that just be...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Click the link my bio Fierce Butterflies, I'm going to make it make sense. Make sure you subscribe and share the channel before leaving.πŸ¦‹

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Blessings Fierce Butterflies! It’s #thankfulthursday and I truly have something to be #thankful for. Click the link in my bio to hear all about it.

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - β€ͺWoohooo!!! Thanks to my subscribers and viewers, I just hit the 5000 watch time (minutes) milestone on #YouTube! Come on over and see what you’re missing. Remember to #subscribe and #share my channel. We are hitting our goalsβ€”One view and one #subscriber at a time! The link is in the bio.πŸ¦‹

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Have you ever had a great guy ask you out or give you attention and you thought

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Why does dating become sooo much harder and more complicated as we get older ?
πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ You would think that things would become clearer after a few decades of heartache and bad dates....
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You would think that it would just naturally fall into place....especially after years of trying. πŸ™‡β€β™€οΈ Unfortunately dating becomes harder , the choices become smaller and time limits seem to be shorter... And here's why πŸ‘‡ ➑️ Unresolved issues ,baggage and self sabotaging if not dealt with , become further ingrained into our brains which produce our habits and decisions . ➑️People are already coupling up so the dating pool becomes smaller . ➑️ Expectations become higher or lower to unhealthy standard due to what you have previously experienced. ➑️We overthink and rush for commitment in fear of missing out.

These are just a few reasons , but the good news is you can completely counteract them and have success in dating at any age in you know what to do and how to do it ! 
If you want to uncomplicate love and are curious to know how I can help you do that in simple , effective and sustainable ways... then put a πŸ‘‘ down !
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Here's why strong independent women get stuck in love πŸ‘‡ 
People assume that having strength means you have an absence of problems...not true! 
Strong women still get stuck dating the wrong men or self sabotaging the good relationships...why? πŸ‘‡ ➑️ They can either have too much masculine energy which throws the balance off leaving a man feeling like he isn't able to lead. ➑️ They are natural givers and can handle a lot so often put up with more than they should . ➑️ They build walls around themselves to protect themselves from settling for second best , but can often shut out or push away the right men. ➑️ They learn to deal with issues on their own as a default instead of realizing that support and help are available. ➑️They dont prioritize their love life or what is needed to attract the right man and be a better partner because they are busy running businesses , families and rescuing everyone else. ➑️They find their dream man but then put him on a pedalstal and lose their sense of identity which starts a downward spiral effect. πŸ‘‡

These are just some of the common things I see ( and have experienced) ....strong women are still human and still need direction , love and support.. Lets never get to a point where we stop working smart in love and just keep working hard.

Just because you can handle battles doesn't mean you have to! .
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Here's why strong independent women get stuck in love πŸ‘‡ People assume that having...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - One of the hardest things in dating , is knowing who to invest into! πŸ€”

So many times I thought I was walking through the right door , investing into the right guy , then BOOM , he drops me like a hot cake....or says he isn't ready for committment ....then proceeded to marry the girl after me πŸ˜‘ 
Even the good ones turn out to be the wrong ones ....do you hear me? πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ #singlegirlswillgetit 
But here is what I learnt....
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Whilst we can't choose who we attract and are attracted to , we can choose who we invest into.

And investing into the right man comes down to a few things : ➑️ Knowing where your decisions are coming from and what your dating mindset is . ➑️ Being aware of red flags and how to recognise toxic or uncommitted behavior and intentions early on. ➑️ Having the discipline to say no to the wrong attention whilst waiting for the right one. ➑️ Guarding your heart , setting the pace and going beyond just initial attraction.

I wish someone had taught me all this like 10 years ago....πŸ˜‘ But that is why I teach it now ...because you shouldn't have to keep wasting time on the wrong man or keep finding out the hard way. 
If you want to learn the difference between the right men and the wrong ones , BEFORE the heartache...then put a πŸ‘‘ below and I'll send you a message .
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One of the hardest things in dating , is knowing who to invest into! πŸ€” So many ti...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Imagine if you could trust yourself to fall in love with the right man ? πŸ”…
Imagine if you knew the difference between time wasters and men who are ready to commit and invest? πŸ”…
Imagine if you were so full of self love that you know longer settled for second rate relationships? πŸ”…
Imagine if you knew what red flags looked like , how to date strategically and how men worked? πŸ”… 
Imagine if you were no longer making decisions out of fear of the future or fear of repeating the past?
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What would that mean to you ? For me it meant I finally got my breakthrough and dream relationship. 
For my clients it meant they achieved the same. 
If you want to stop dreaming and start making the above a reality,  then put a πŸ‘‘ down below πŸ‘‡
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Imagine if you could trust yourself to fall in love with the right man ? πŸ”… Imagine...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - My biggest fear was that I would die alone .

I was so desperate to be loved , get married and have babies. 
Now wanting those things is normal , but making decisions out of a place of fear led me to toxic relationships,  chasing men , settling for second best and driving men away.

It was like my worst fear was becoming a reality even though I was trying to do the opposite ?! πŸ€” 
Ever notice how when you makrle choices out of fear you end up experiencing exactly what you don't want to ?😫 I have so many women come to me with the same fears : that they will never find real love or end up alone. 
Some may call it dramatic , but when your circumstances constantly confirm it , it really becomes frustrating,  scary and upsetting.

So how did I overcome this fear and find my man in a matter or months after 10 years of struggle ? 
I took action. I got help. I chose to water faith instead and Iearnt how to become the best version of me and learn to embrace the season of being single whilst waiting for a GREAT love that I knew existed.πŸ‘πŸ§‘πŸ’₯ If you want to do the same ang stop giving power to that fear than put a πŸ‘‘down below and Ill send you a message.
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My biggest fear was that I would die alone . I was so desperate to be loved , get ma...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Ever wonder why you keep running back to the ones who constantly make you feel like you don't mean much to them? 
This was literally me , minus the pink hair! #ohbrittany 
I remember I was dating a guy who wanted to come over and when I refused to have sex with him , he pretended that he had to go get a gift for me from his car... 20 mins later I realised he had driven off and went back home !!! And what did I do ? 
I got in my car and drove to his place , tried to climb his fence and beg for him !!πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Looking back I realised I was chasing men because I was always searching for my validation in them .

I wanted them to accept and love me because I struggled to know how to do that myself. 
It's something that almost 99.9 % of my clients do and to be able to realese them from that toxic cycle is so incredible to see. 
If you want to stop chasing toxic love and regain your confidence,  attract a healthy love and makrle #dating something easy again , then put a πŸ‘‘ down below! .
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Ever wonder why you keep running back to the ones who constantly make you feel like y...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Its my 33rd birthday today and it has honestly been the most peace filed birthday I have ever had. πŸ™πŸ» I'm not going to lie , I thought my life would be different at this age.
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I imagined I would be living in Australia in a home,  with a baby and my husband. πŸ‘ͺ

But here I am building my global business , living in Greece and still planning our wedding 5 years on πŸ˜‚πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Life doesn't always go to plan , and sometimes it's for the best. Because in those moments when you think you are being buried , you are actually being planted. 🌱

The biggest lesson I have learnt in the last year ,is you have the power every single day to create the life , love and happiness you seek....and it all starts in the mind and with a singke decision not to settle! πŸ’₯

You dreams are not impossible. 
The love you seek is available and waiting for you. 
You can conquer your fears , break cycles and have more...all it takes is the first step! .
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Its my 33rd birthday today and it has honestly been the most peace filed birthday I h...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Why do we chase the ones who don't want us and ignore the ones who do?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It's almost like a sadistic trait ,because we know they aren't emotionally available and we know that it is going to hurt and it could be sooooo much easier if we focused on the guy that actuallu wanted us .... But here we are....πŸ™ƒ Now there's actually a logical explanation for it , and it all has to do with your association and experience with love and what your brain has been programmed to recieve and attract.

Often we chase the toxic and unvailable because we might want to : -Rescue them because we see their potential. - Try and get their approval and validation of who we are because our own self love levels are so low. - Are afraid of commitment so subliminally date men who never want to commit.

The key is obviously to find that balance between falling in love with someone who is ready and not feeling like you are missing out because your brain craves the chase. 
It's a process that requires accountability,  love educatuon, self awareness and discipline! 
There are no quick fixes , but you can get rapid breakthrough if you know what to do .This is why it's about working smart not hard in love! 
If you want to know more about how I teach you to do that , put a πŸ‘‘ below! .
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Why do we chase the ones who don't want us and ignore the ones who do?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I...


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"Maybe you shouldn't date such tall good looking men " ☝️ A friend once said that...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - There are always 3 questions that single women ask themselves after years of struggling with love : πŸ‘‡

1# : Is it meant to be this hard? 
2# : How hard could it be to find a good men , they can't all be like this .. 3#: Is it me? Is there something wrong with me? 
I get what it's like to feel like to feel weary and exhausted from dating and relationships.. No it is not meant to be that hard.

No not all men are like that. 
No there is nothing wrong with you.... BUT 
Yes dating will continue to get more difficult the longer you leave it/ the older you get....so choose to date smart instead of hard .

Yes you will keep attracting the same type of man over and over again if you don't learn how to recognise and fall in love with who is good for you.

Yes we all have room for self improvement and if you don't stop self sabotaging then the problem becomes you not them.

Sometimes its you and sometimes its because your asking the wrong person. 
If you can relate to this and want to know more about how I teach you to attract and identify the right man ...drop me a πŸ‘‘ below
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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Sometimes, God uses the broken pieces of our lives to help restore us. #askrenee β€œAnd we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, whohave been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28

Sometimes, God uses the broken pieces of our lives to help restore us. #askrenee β€œA...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Why is it always around the 3 month mark that men pull back πŸ€”

You know,  just when you feel like you are getting serious and things are going well ...
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All of a sudden the texts become less , he is always

Why is it always around the 3 month mark that men pull back πŸ€” You know, just whe...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - When you are single and completely struggling in love , sometimes seeing those couply couples just makes you so annoyed! 
Thank goodness my attitude has changed since then πŸ˜‚ 
But the truth is when you feel like everyone is experiencing real love but you , it's almost like a slap in the face.πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ Because you want it too , and you're trying , but you still seem to keep experiencing the ones that never want to commit or devalue you.πŸ˜” And then as more time passes,  all your friends get married and start doing couply crap and you become the

When you are single and completely struggling in love , sometimes seeing those couply...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Blessings Fierce Butterflies! Have you heard? The Fierce Butterfly Nation has expanded to YouTube!! Come on over and join us for some sweet inspiration and lots of wisdom nuggets for everyday living. How to join? Click the link in my bio and SUBSCRIBE to our channel - Remember to click that notification bell so that you will be notified each time I upload a new video. That’s all, I’ll see you over there!πŸ¦‹

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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Why is it that every man couldn't commit to me but would propose to the girl AFTER me like after a few months?! This☝️ was what I used to experience , I would spend months and years investing into a man, only to have him break up with me because he

Why is it that every man couldn't commit to me but would propose to the girl AFTER me...


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#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Why is it that strong women still seem to attract the wrong men ?? I remember people used to say to me all the time that I was such a catch ...and they couldn't fathom why a strong,  independent,  good looking woman like me was single ? 
To be honest I wanted to know the answer too πŸ˜‚πŸ€” It just didn't make sense , I knew how to set boundaries so why then did I date men that never respected them? 
I knew I was a good woman so why did I date men that couldn't see my value? 
People assume that you have to be broken and weak to struggle with love,  but the truth is even strong,  successful beautiful women still find love just as hard. 
The reality is , if you don't have a deep level of self awareness,  a clear direction of what you want , an understanding of what men also need and how to practically attract and build that into your life....then you will always struggle - weak or strong,  fear and lack don't discriminate! 
I often see so many strong women either end up chasing men who devalue them or scare them away because they are trying to lead instead of allowing him to lead. 
It's a normal human reaction to look for the solution to love in just dating the right person....but the real truth is that the solution starts with you.....you choose who you date and what you do and build in that relationship.... If you are a strong successful woman struggling with love,  then it's time to download my free guide in my bio and start pinpointing some of those roadblocks so you can use them as stepping stones to love instead of hindrances. .
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Why is it that strong women still seem to attract the wrong men ?? I remember people ...


#askrenee Instagram Hashtag - Isn't it funny how people can tell when you're not really happy...even though you pretend to be ? 
I remember when I was in toxic relationships,  I used to smile and say everything was 'fine ' or 'great' ...even though I was screaming on the inside that I wanted more and always questioned myself

Isn't it funny how people can tell when you're not really happy...even though you pre...


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